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Individual Counselling


“Therapy should not be theory driven, but relationship driven” Irvin Yalom.

 

“It is the relationship that heals” Irvin Yalom.

The relationship between the counsellor and client is often referred to as the therapeutic relationship. Research has shown that the therapeutic relationship is the most important ingredient in achieving a successful outcome in counselling. Therefore, I believe that it is essential to build a good rapport and therapeutic relationship, based upon respect, trust, understanding and unconditional acceptance.  

 

The working alliance lies at the heart of the relational therapeutic work with my clients. My approach is relational, trauma-aware and collaborative.  Building a warm, non-judgmental, secure relationship becomes a fundamental part of our work together. It is important to maintain this relationship throughout the time that we work together. The therapeutic relationship that we establish will allow you to feel safe, held and able to explore whatever you bring to your sessions without being judged.

 

I offer clients an integrative approach, which means that I have trained and have experience in a variety of different theoretical approaches and techniques. The Integrative approach meets the needs of each individual client in a unique and personal way and allows for flexibility within the counselling room, and avoids a one-size-fits-all approach.  Each person needs to be considered as a whole, and counselling techniques must be tailored to their individual needs and personal circumstances, as we are all unique individuals, and integrative therapy respects that.

 

My approach is trauma-informed, inclusive, compassionate and responsive to each person’s unique needs and experiences, and I work from an intersectional, neurodiverse and LGBTQIA+ affirming perspective, and my practice is grounded in cultural awareness and sensitivity.

 

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I work with what each individual client brings to counselling, and some of the issues I work with include: -

 

  • Anxiety

  • Feeling depressed, low, sad, or empty 

  • Feeling stressed and/or overwhelmed 

  • Low self-confidence, worth, and esteem

  • Verbal, physical, emotional, and/or sexual Abuse 

  • Trauma, including Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Complex PTSD

  • Unresolved issues from the past

  • Panic disorders/panic attacks

  • Loneliness and feeling isolated

  • Feeling stuck, uninspired, or lost 

  • A sense of failure or shame, or imposter syndrome

  • bereavement, grief, and loss

  • Adjusting to university life (homesick and /or experiencing cultural shock)

  • Difficulties impacting upon engagement with academic studies 

  • Lacking motivation or experiencing feelings of underachievement

  • ​Existential issues, eg, sense of meaning of purpose in life

  • Graduation anxiety 

  • Relationship problems: family, partners, friends, flatmates, course-mates

  • Parenting, be this becoming a new parent or navigating parenthood and other commitments

  • Parenting issues,  challenges, and family conflict 

  • Cultural identity and belonging 

  • Gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity

  • Identity Issues

  • Burnout and exhaustion

  • Creative block

  • Work-life balance

  • Work and workplace issues

  • Loneliness and isolation

  • Significant life events 

  • Building a resilient sense of self

  • Food and eating-related problems

  • Life changes and transitions


This list is not comprehensive; therefore, your reason for seeking counselling may not be listed above.
 

If you would like to have a brief preliminary chat on the phone, prior to deciding to book a free initial consultation
appointment, you are warmly welcome to  call me on 07922705020 or email me at steppingintocounselling@gmail.com

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"There is no agony like bearing an untold story inside of you". 

Maya Angelou
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